Big Adventures

This past weekend I took a truly fantastic trip to Salt Lake City. My best friend from college called me a few months ago after listening to a piece on NPR about the Great Salt Lake and the fact that, at current rates, the lake will essentially dry up in the next five to ten years. We have to see it before it’s gone, she said.

And so we did. 

The Great Salt Lake has always challenged a conventional definition of what a lake is; it has never been a lake resembling the freshwater Great Lakes. For hundreds of thousands of years it has been like a giant organism breathing in and breathing out. It does not have distinct boundaries and shorelines. Instead over long cycles, the water expands outward over the marshland and desert and then contracts inward, leaving wide berths of mud and dry land. 

This is due to the fact that the Great Salt Lake does not have the same intake and outtake footprint of most lakes. Most lakes have rivers and smaller water channels that bring water in and out, keeping the lake at a somewhat steady level. The Great Salt Lake does not have these conventional rivers carrying water out (there is some limited river water bringing water in), and so the water level is mostly dictated by temperature and rain. When it is cooler and wetter, the lake rises and expands. When it is hotter and drier, the lake contracts due to evaporation. 

The sustained drought and generally warmer temperatures of the western US, along with water diversion for agricultural and residential growth have merged to create the conditions drying out the Great Salt Lake. There has been some reprieve over 2023 and 2024 with rainfall in California that makes its way down to the lake, but it’s not enough to reverse the current trend.

Current conditions are also making the Great Salt Lake even saltier. Its salt content is mostly a geologic phenomenon of the specific place, with tons of salt accumulated over time. Without the aforementioned outflow of water, salt and other minerals build up in the lakebed. This condition has created a unique ecologic place. There are few plants and animals that can survive in the waters. Some of the wetland plants have evolved in wildly unique ways to avoid the toxicity of the salt. At the Great Salt Lake Shorelands Preserve, a Nature Conservancy property, we read about Greasewood, which sheds leaves when they have become too salty, and Shadscale, which traps salt in glands on its leaves. The glands then explode when full of salt, resulting in leaves covered with what look like tiny crystals.

Three full days in SLC was perfection. We spent one day on and around the lake, one day in the city, and one day in the mountains. We stayed in The Avenues, a charming neighborhood to the west of the University of Utah campus. We saw and learned about the lake at Antelope Island State Park and the Shorelands Preserve. 

Our day in the city was a full one:

  • Tracy Aviary at Liberty Park: A real treasure. Even non-birders will fall in love with the residents at this place.
  • Visit to the Maven District: A new commercial area of locally-owned shops and cafes.
  • Red Butte Garden and Arboretum: It was a beautiful time of year to see the wide range of native and non-native plants nestled in the hills here.
  • Hike to Ensign Peak at sunset overlooking the city: This is the place where Brigham Young and men stood and decided that the valley would be where the early Mormons would settle.

On our final day we headed up into the Wasatch Mountains and Big Cottonwood Canyon for two hikes – Willow Lake and Donut Falls. There was snow on the ground! But it was really temperate outside (low 50s) with brilliant sun.

I’m incredibly fortunate to have been able to take this trip with a loved friend. At this specific moment. A strikingly different physical place offered the space and breathing room to pause, reflect, and reset. 

Sometimes we all need a reset.

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With the calendar turning to October, summer 2024 has officially closed out. It’s time to reflect and celebrate the “ta das” of summer (the flip side of the “to dos”).

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In a mid-May post I outlined my six Great Lakes summer intentions – specific things I wanted to do by the end of the season. I shared that this is part of a strategy called design your summer that I’ve implemented for quite a few years after hearing about it on the podcast Happier with Gretchen Rubin. Each year I have found that setting, and then often completing, my summer intentions makes the season more vivid and memorable. 

As of this post, I have completed five of my six intentions. The one that I did not get to – a trip out to one of my favorite lakefront parks, Lake Erie Bluffs – is on the calendar for this coming weekend, paired with taking the girls out for breakfast and buying pumpkins and mums, which abound in the counties east of us. 

Additional Great Lakes moments happened unexpectedly or spontaneously over the summer. See my post from August that shares a couple – the playful Great Lakes water table at the Meijer Gardens & Sculpture Park in Grand Rapids, Michigan, the gem that is Edgewater Beach in Cleveland on a sunny Friday.

Our family outing to see the sunset from the Solstice Steps in Lakewood Park will remain an exceptionally rich memory. Since moving to Cleveland in 2014, we have always loved this park. It has an enormous playground that both of the girls have always looked forward to visiting. On our very first visit to the park, likely in 2015, we wandered down to the waterfront and found the lookout at the furthest east point of the promenade along the water. It looks directly east at the downtown Cleveland skyline. My husband, who grew up on the east side of the city, said that it was a completely new view of the city to him. It’s amazing how we end up living somewhere and, for no fault of our own, often end up with informally drawn boundaries, angles, and perspectives from which we see and experience it.

We went on a beautiful night, although the sky was very clear and so the sunset was attractive, but not unique. Catching a good sunset is tricky. It’s some clouds in the sky that create the sweeping, radiant, glowing sunsets where light ricochets around the sky. For optimal sunsets, you are looking for mid-level and high clouds with 50% cloud coverage.

As we sat on the huge stone steps nestled into the hillside, we were surrounded by the sounds of people making summer linger – music, laughter, children playing during dusk. People were seated all around like an amphitheater, watching this minor miracle of each and every day. When the sun dropped below the horizon line, everyone applauded.

The curtain has dropped on the season, but we had a really great summer. It felt long and leisurely. Fall has been a pretty significant gear shift. Even when trying intentionally to not be overbooked, it often just happens. I miss the slower pace and am trying two strategies to keep some of that slower pace at other points of the year. One is blocking time on the calendar for rest. For example, there is a Sunday afternoon in October where I have blocked 2-6 as an afternoon of rest; I will not book other plans at that time. 

The other strategy is small adventure-big adventure, which is a permutation on content by the writer and podcaster Laura Vanderkam. I try to have one small adventure every week; this might be solo or it might be with the family. The scope of an adventure can be very modest – a walk at a park, a local event, coffee with a friend. I also try to have at least one big adventure each month.  The scope of this can also be fairly modest – one of our family favorites is to pair either a park walk and exploration with a meal out or in colder months perhaps a museum with a meal.  For the meals, we often look for a hidden gem that is new to the family. 

So, here’s to fall adventures! If you’d like to see a re-cap from my summer, check-out my Instagram reel posted this week.

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Our tour of the Great Lakes continues today. We’re going to move eastward, from the deep, cold, expansive waters of Lake Superior, dropping down into Lake Huron.  

The first weekend of November, my older daughter and I went away for quiet time together. I wanted one more Great Lakes adventure before the winter settled in, and I really hadn’t seen Lake Huron other than acknowledging it as we passed over the Mackinac Bridge to the Upper Peninsula in July 2022. Many people don’t realize that Lake Huron and Lake Michigan are essentially one body of water, joined at the Straits of Mackinac which you cross on the bridge. Lake Huron is the second-largest of the Great Lakes by surface area but has the longest shoreline, creating an incredibly diverse geography to be explored in a future post.

I wanted to see the sunrise over Lake Huron. With off-season pricing, we rented a small house right on the waters of Saginaw Bay, a little over a four hour drive from Cleveland. 

Saturday morning, we didn’t get much sun. It was cloudy and overcast at dawn. A weather pattern had churned up the water; the visible and audible effect was every bit inland sea with waves rolling onto the small strip of sand in front of the house patio. My daughter was undeterred by the lack of a picturesque sunrise. Sometimes we don’t get sun. Sometimes we get clouds. We can still find joy from huddling together under a blanket, or romping around on the sand, looking at driftwood. We can still look out, beyond, and know that above the clouds, the sun has brought light and another day.

As I look to 2024, I sit with gratitude for some personal and family milestones that will be reached over the year. But I also sit with a heavy heart and an undercurrent of unease while thinking about our global and national realities. 

As former President Barack Obama once said though, “No matter what happens, the sun will rise in the morning”. And some days it will look like it did the next day, on Sunday morning, November 5, 2023. Simply nothing short of a magical gift.

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In September 2020, after those months of lockdown, I spent a glorious day visiting my best friend from college. It was one of those visits of the time; we visited almost exclusively outdoors. We were sitting on a bench having a late summer ice cream cone and she said, “You guys might really like this show I’ve been watching. It’s a total delight. It’s called Joe Pera Talks With You and it’s on Adult Swim”. I remember asking her to repeat that last part…  I’d never heard of the streaming service before. But my husband and I hunted it down, and what a gift it was.  

Joe Pera is a comedian with a slow, earnest, mumbly delivery and persona that he seems to retain in all public interactions and presentations; any separate persona seems unknown. Joe Pera Talks With You evolved out of his stand-up comedy, debuting in late 2018. Critics and general watchers praised the show.

In it he plays a gentle middle school choir teacher (named Joe Pera) in Marquette on Michigan’s Upper Peninsula (the UP). Each short episode tends to revolve around a topic that Joe is talking with you about. He speaks directly to you, the audience, about things ranging from rocks and minerals to cold weather sports to how to write an obituary. Between monologues on these topics, there are storylines of Joe’s quiet, content life on the UP. We’re with him as a friendship grows into a romantic relationship with a fellow teacher who is also an apocalypse-prepper. Joe’s beloved Nana passes away. Joe navigates a friendship with his neighbors, the Melskys, who are kind and also a little rough around the edges. 

The show is slow, meditative, absurd, funny, off-beat. Frankly, the show is a lot like the UP as I experienced it in our summer 2022 visit. Our visit was inspired in great part by watching the show which was filmed on location in Marquette. One of the best episodes (S3:E1) revolves around Joe helping his friend Gene pick out a new “retirement chair”. When we were in Marquette we were so excited to drive by the furniture store where the episode was filmed. I hope you might have the chance to watch the episode and appreciate its simple joys.

Almost exactly a year ago, the show’s cancellation was announced after the third season. Although we’ve all built a thick skin for the fleeting world of television shows, my friend and I exchanged texts lamenting our collective loss. A New York Times writer in an article on the slate of TV cancellations late in 2022 wrote that the cancellation of Joe Pera Talks With You “stings the most” and concluded with a turn of opinion that remains so memorable to me: “We live in a time of relatively abundant television, and plenty of it is good, but very little of it is special. ‘Joe Pera Talks With You’ was though, a free verse Midwestern ode to tenderness and wonder”.

You can find Joe Pera Talks With You on Max, Hulu and Amazon Prime.

In the first episode of the show Joe stands in front of the Lower Harbor Ore Dock in downtown Marquette explaining the history of iron ore. We felt the same awe and reverence in summer 2022.

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Today I’m starting a series of posts that will take us on a tour of the Great Lakes. We’ll take our time; I will have an introductory post to each lake and then subsequent related posts before moving to the next one. 

We’re going to move west to east, as the waters flow, starting with Lake Superior.

As I wrote in my post “The Great Lakes as The Breakfast Club”, Lake Superior is the largest Great Lake in surface area, the deepest and the coldest. 

In fact, Lake Superior is the largest freshwater lake by surface area in the world, and it could hold the water from all four of the other Great Lakes plus three more Lake Eries. It is thus not surprising to learn that the Ojibwe name for Lake Superior is Gitchi-Gami, which translates to “great sea”.

Ontario, Minnesota, Wisconsin and Michigan surround Lake Superior. The largest city on the lake is Thunder Bay, Ontario, home of many minor and major league ice hockey players and apparently the birthplace of the 60s rock band Buffalo Springfield “Think it’s time we stop children – what’s that sound… everybody look what’s goin’ down…”. The largest island in Lake Superior is Isle Royale, a national park and the site of one of the most famous ecological experiments in the world – that of the wolves and moose which I wrote about back in June. Lake Superior is large enough that it is rare for it to completely freeze over. 2014 was the last time it came close, with 91% ice coverage. 

I saw Lake Superior for the first time in July 2022 when we visited Michigan’s Upper Peninsula (the UP). We were there during a heat wave and we swam in the lake off Presque Isle Park near Marquette. The water was, even at the height of summer, well, I would use the word invigorating. On the downside, I would describe skin stinging. Positively, I would describe feeling the incredible physical impact and full-body sensation of cold. It absolutely made you feel utterly alive.   

If you are inspired by the idea of this incredible northern inland sea, let yourself indulge in the idea and poke around the Lake Superior Circle Tour Adventure Guide website. The tour is a 1,300 mile self guided tour all the way around the lake. RV trip anyone? Would be amazing.

My greatest Lake Superior fantasy? A future trip I’ve penciled in for Summer 2027 to Duluth, Minnesota (America’s Best Town in America per Outside Magazine in 2021 and home of the Great Lakes Aquarium) and then several days spent kayaking around the Apostle Islands National Lakeshore, Wisconsin. Can’t wait to see Superior again. 

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A couple of weeks ago, the New York Times had an article proposing five alternative, less crowded national protected lands to consider in place of some of the most visited national parks. Their proposed substitution for Acadia National Park in Maine: Pictured Rocks National Lakeshore in Michigan.

Last summer we spent three days on Michigan’s Upper Peninsula. We rented an Airbnb in Marquette, a college town (home of Northern Michigan University), and a terrific base for a family vacation in the UP.

One day we drove 40 minutes east to Munising and took a 2.5 hour boat ride with Pictured Rocks Cruises and saw the lakeshore from the waters of Lake Superior. Written into federal law in 1966 and opened in 1972, Pictured Rocks National Lakeshore was the first National Lakeshore. It is named for the 15 miles of cliffs rising out of the lake but the full park is over 71,000 acres of land. If our girls had been older, we would have considered the spectacular option of seeing the lakeshore from a kayak; there are a number of companies that offer different types of paddling packages. 

The lakeshore is nothing less than stunning. Sandstone cliffs display layer upon layer of geologic time while mineral seepage creates the multitude of colors that give the “pictured rocks” their name – red and orange from iron, green and blue from copper, black from manganese and white from limonite. The cliffs have been shaped over millions of years by land, water and wind resulting in varied formations – arches, caves and edges that look carved with specific force and intent.

There is one particular sandstone outcropping that has gathered attention for decades. It is known as Chapel Rock. The rock pillar has stood away from the mainland shore since 1940 when the natural rock bridge that once attached it collapsed. On top of the pillar there is a singular, steadfast pine tree standing proud. Get closer and you will see that the tree remains connected to the mainland by its root system. The sight has tremendous impact both visually and emotionally: The strength and endurance, but also fragility, of nature all bound up together. 

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In 2011, Good Morning America named Sleeping Bear Dunes National Lakeshore in Michigan the Most Beautiful Place in America. It beat out Aspen, CO, Cape Cod, MA and Lanikai Beach, HI among others, taking many people by surprise. But it shouldn’t have!

We spent an idyllic four days in the area in June 2019. I would highly recommend it for a trip. The National Lakeshore includes 64 miles of beaches along Lake Michigan, two islands (North and South Manitou), 26 inland lakes and over 50,000 acres of land. The region more widely includes large inland lakes, Midwest-size mountains (Crystal Mountain), and sits proximal to Traverse City and to the beautiful Leelenau Penninsula.   

Some highlights from our trip:

The Dunes themselves are astounding. Many of them are huge and steep expanses sloping down into the lake. From some viewpoints, including many along the Pierce Stocking Scenic Drive, all the eye sees is sand sharply meeting water. Many of them should not be climbed! The park posts numerous warnings of the danger of making it down – but not back up the shifting sands. Each year there are approximately 60 search and rescues and individuals will see fines of $2,000 or more for the rescue effort. For those interested though, The Dune Climb is a designated area for dune ascent and descent. Bring water!

We found numerous beach playgrounds in the area. These were basically a dream come true for our two girls, reinforcing that it’s really the simple things that bring joy. 

The region includes the sweet town of Glen Arbor with one of most adorable independent bookstores I’ve ever been to – The Cottage Bookshop. We also enjoyed a brewery in Frankfurt and hiking trails in Empire.  

Northern Michigan is famous for its cherries. We closed out our time at Sleeping Bear Dunes with dinner at The Cherry Hut, a restaurant that opened in Beulah in 1922. The trip was everything a vacation should be with opportunities for activity and rest while surrounded by water, sand, grass, trees and sky. 

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